RAISING LIFE LOVING KIDS: SUGGESTIONS BY PARENTS WHO HAVE SUCCEEDED.

Here's an idea that is long over due!  How we can teach our children/grandchildren to be pro-life from infancy. One friend's young daughter sends a cookie "for the babies" with him when he goes to the abortion clinic to pray.  Such actions give young children the idea that the preborn child is important and special to God.

A very active, long time pro-life family, raised their children to be pro-life and now their daughter writes about how she is also raising pro-life children. This is a success story.

Mary’s letter on the life-enriching gift of being pro-life

 Here are a few ideas which helped me give my children the gift of being pro-life. 

1) Some things are better caught than taught.  Before I was six, my parents let us know our family was pro-life and even took us to demonstrate against abortion.   I grew up just knowing that abortion was bad.  When I became a mother, my husband Tim and I passed this life-enriching gift of being pro-life to our children by letting our actions as well as our words show them that our family is pro-life. 

2) When should you begin? It’s best to start early.  I have shown American Life League’s excellent video, “Baby Steps”, (showing active pre-born babies of various ages) to two year olds.   I try to repeat the video once a year.  The rest of my family and I exhibit enthusiasm.  “That’s what you looked like before you were born!  Weren’t you cute?  You were so nice!”  We try to repeat it every few months.

Try it!  “Baby Steps” is free on the web at www.BabyStepsdvd.com  *(see heritage house info below)  

3) With my young children, I keep it short!  If I can’t make it fun, I stop immediately!

4) How much we care about someone partly has to do with what they do for us, but it has more to do with what we do for them. Small children will care more about unborn babies when they do something for them. Start with a small action so each child can feel success doing something they know is important. The Life Chain is an easy family activity. Young children love to pick out baby gifts that can be given to a crisis pregnancy center.

In January each of my children would name an unborn baby endangered by abortion. We would pray the “Prayer for an Unborn Child” every night. Praying daily for their baby helps each child connect with unborn babies. Recently one of my adult children told me that she still does this.

Start them young, and ask only a tiny little bit so each child can succeed.  Start older children this same way.  Praise them and make sure they feel success and that they know they are doing something important.  Praying daily for a baby helps children identify with the babies.   I use the following prayer.

Jesus, I love you very much. Please spare the life of the preborn child, [baby's name], whom I have spiritually adopted and is in danger of abortion.

5) I work to maintain my children’s initial love for the right to life.  After the child enters elementary school, I continue to encourage them by saying the baby prayer nightly.  Educate your children about right to life issues appropriately as they mature.  About once a year motivate older children by discussing appropriate Scripture such as Matthew’s Gospel, Chapter 25:31-46.

In elementary school we continue to educate our children about pro-life issues. Even at this age, abortion is a subject that may come up on the playground. At this age, you can encourage your children to write letters to elected officials.

I encourage my older children to continue praying and occasionally perform adult-like actions, such as learning and understanding the adversary’s techniques, deeper study or paper writing assignments, letters to the editor, attending a life chain, praying outside a clinic, joining their church or local right to life group, or social networking such as email or Facebook, et al. to communicate pro-life messages.  . 

6) It is important to cause your child’s heart to be pro-life very early because people’s earlier opinions determine what new information they later believe or reject and your children will be exposed to pro-abortion propaganda much earlier than most parents expect.

7) The major media (especially ABC, CBD, NBC) have been doing research for at least forty years in order to better learn how to change people’s attitudes toward morality and the media has specialists who specifically research better ways to change people’s attitudes toward abortion, contraception, and other morality related issues.   The general technique is to have attractive characters be pro-abortion and attract characters initially on the fence to take a step toward becoming pro-promiscuity and pro-abortion.   These characters comprise a virtual peer group which makes it reasonable to be pro-abortion or pro any other attitudes or morality the media wants to impose on the public.   To learn more about how they do it, Google PCI Media Impact or check PCI Media Impact on Wikipedia, especially the NY Times reference.

The pro-abortion movement influences children with propaganda at surprisingly early ages, so it is important to prepare your children early.   Tell each child in general terms what is coming from the pro-abortionists so they can better resist pro-death propaganda as they mature. 

When the child enters junior high school or before age fourteen, as much as possible of what should be known by an adult should be explained, taking account of the age and maturity of the child. Life Issues is one source for valuable resources.

8) Before I was ten, a girl friend was snooping in our garage where she should not have been.  She happened to notice some photos of aborted babies.  Nobody knew about this snooping until twenty years later when she told me that she had been pressured to abort her baby and the memory of those photos was the deciding factor in strengthening her enough to resist abortion.  I think children should see photos of aborted babies before they enter high school.**

Don’t fear.  When you first learn how the major media is trying to steal the hearts and souls of your children, you will be tempted to be scared.  Don’t be. It is true that if you send them out weak, they will wreck.  But if you send them out strong, they will come back stronger.  And you can send them out into the world strong.  You may be weak, but you and God together are stronger than all Satan’s highly placed advocates!

By Timothy and Mary Partin – daughter and son-in-law of Bob and Susan Sassone

**Jean Garton wrote a book Who Broke The Baby? after her young son saw the pictures of an aborted baby and asked that question.  Another young child said after accidently seeing the pictures, “Jesus wouldn’t like that.”  Young children know it is a baby but not some Supreme Court Justices!

Why is this so important?  In a recent article the “Pew Research Center
reports on Millenials” who currently span the ages of 18 to 29. 

It was found that they are the least overtly religious American generation in modern times. 

One-in-four are not affiliated with any religion.

Six-in-ten were raised by both parents.

They are the most likely of any generation to self-identify as liberals.

The Barna Group, Ltd., 2368 Eastman Ave. Unit 12, Ventura, CA 93003 has been doing extensive polls since 1984.

There is hope. Groups like Awana help parents and churches raise Modern-Day Josephs, Awana strategically weaves five master life threads (character traits) into their curriculum for ages 2 to 18:

             Respect, Wisdom, Grace, Destiny and Perspectives

What is the result?  Instead of half the church-going teens abandoning their faith after high school, by contrast, most kids in Awana continue to faithfully follow Jesus as adults.

ACTIVITIES AND REFERRALS FOR ADULTS WHO WANT TO KNOW AND DO MORE 

Should Christians vote for pro-choice candidates? Read and take the Pro-Life Pledge found at the following link  Pro-Life Pledge Brochure

Well thought out Bible Studies especially for Bible study groups and Sunday School classes from Crusade For Life:

• “A Christian Response to Abortion”
• “A Christian Response to Euthanasia”
   

Truth Project –  Focus on the Family Outstanding overview of Christianity.
    

http://www.all.org   American Life League   P.O. Box 1350, Stafford, VA 22555 540-659-4171 fax: 540-659-2586 - http://www.all.org/faq/  Most frequently asked questions on life issues.  Great prolife resource especially for Catholics. 

http://www.aim.org/   Accuracy in Media - 4455 Connecticut Ave, N.W. Suite #330,
Washington D.C. 20008  202-364-4401 fax202-364-4098  Excellent hard hitting
newsletter. For fairness and accuracy in the media.  [email protected]

The Heritage Foundation – Everything you want to know about conservative issues. College/adults

Baker Books Forgiven and Set Free by Linda Cochrane Healing from abortion. Enter title in search box.

ChristianBooks.com - Carries many pro-life books that are highly recommended for a church Pro-Life Library. Forgive and Set Free by  Linda Cochrane - highly recommended program for healing from abortion; The Hand of God by Bernard Nathanson; Won By Love by Norma McCorvey; *ProLife Answers to ProChoice Arguments by Randy Alcorn; *Gianna: Aborted and Lived to Tell About It by Jessica Shaver;  Grand Illusions: The Legacy of Planned Parenthood by George Grant   
High school and up:  Has excellent resources pertaining to life such as these true life stories:
*The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom, about living in Holland at the time of the Nazis and surviving in a concentration camp;
Angel Unaware by Dale Evans Rogers, about having a special needs child; Joni by Joni Eareckson Tada, a true story about a young girl paralyzed in a swimming accident.  Joni has written several books, some for younger children. *
*Honey for A Child's Heart by Gladys Hunt gives imaginative use of books in family life, with both secular and Christian titles for children of all ages including teenagers.
For the Families Sake, For the Children's Sake by Susan Schaeffer Macauley and for young teenage girls Let's Talk by Danae Dobson.  

http://crusadeforlife.org  - Crusade for Life, Inc.  9771 El Tulipan Cir, Fountain
Valley, CA 92708   714/963-4753p/f – Look on the web site for new
products. Look under Resources and Power Pro-Life Products. Many are new
materials for Christians and pastors. Crusade for Life, "Key Scriptures Concerning Abortion".    http://www.crusadeforlife.org/prolife_scriptures.htm

Eagle Forum - Legislative updates
Between e-mails and newsletters by President Phyllis Schlafly, this is probably the most outstanding source for up-to-date pro-family/pro-life information in the country.

Concerned Women for America - Important information on Pro-life/Pro-family issues including Sanctity of Life Issues 

Americans United for Life - Outstanding information on legislation state by state. Americans United for Life uses a proven three-pronged strategy -- Education, Legislation, and Litigation -- to protect life through the law. Their comprehensive, beginning-to-end approach is reducing abortions and helping state after state become more pro-life every year. Excellent resource for high school and up on legislation.

Eternal Perspective Ministries - Books for a church Pro-Life Library – high school and up:  Has excellent resources pertaining to life such as these pro-life books and articles by Randy Alcorn author of:

• Pro-Life Answers to Pro-Choice Arguments
• Does the Birth Control Pill Cause Abortions
• Abortion-relevant References from Scripture by Randy Alcorn
• Abortion In The Bible and Church History by Randy Alcorn

Preserve Liberty - What a Church Can Do and  special DVD 28daysonthepill.com 

http://priestsforlife.org   Priests for Life/Gospel of Life     - PO Box 141172, Staten
Island, NY 10314 - 888-735-3448, 718-980-4400 fax718-980-6515 Catholic
material covering all aspects of pro-life.

http://prolifeaction.org/hotline/category/sidewalk-counseling/   Pro-Life Action League  prolifeaction.org  6160 N. Cicero Ave, Chicago, IL 60646 - 773-304-LIFE, 773-777-2900, fax773-777-3061 Lots of pro-life material and especially on how to reach the abortion minded woman. Sidewalk counseling.  info@generationsforlife 

Life Training Institute  Training others to save lives. Founded by Scott Klusendorf

Regnery Publishing, Inc.   Facts Not Fear, A Parent's Guide to Teaching Children About the Environment  by Michael Sanera and Jane S. Shaw 

The Susan B. Anthony List is dedicated to advancing, mobilizing and representing pro-life women in the political process. Excellent web site for young woman to see the political side of pro-life. 

Terri Schindler Schiavo Foundation - Fighting to protect love ones from the strong euthanasia movement growing in our country today.

http://textbookreviews.org   Educational Research Analysis Newsletter   PO Box 7518, Longview, TX 75607  903-753-5993  The late Mel Gablers started this outstanding important ministry.  Public school textbooks are decided in TX and CA for the whole nation - for parents.   They have made a difference.  [email protected]

The Justice Foundation was founded in 1993 to protect the fundamental freedoms and rights essential to the preservation of American society. The Foundation represents clients free of charge in cases in the areas of limited government, free markets, private property, parental school choice, parental rights in education, and enforcing laws to protect women's health.  College age interest in law. 

http://www.thepublicdiscourse.com/2009/06/375   Is the abortion debate over? Article by Micah Watson – high school and up. Found on The Witherspoon Institute. http://www.winst.org/index.php

http://vidahumana.org   Vida Humana Internacional  vidahumana.org - 45 SW 72 Ave Miami , FL 33144 305-260-0525 fax 305-260-0595 Spanish pro-life materials.
[email protected]  

Zondervan Publishers - Honey For A Child's Heart  by Gladys Hunt, imaginative use of books in family life, secular and Christian titles for children of all ages – excellent resource for parents. Read for Your Life Turning Teens into Readers Includes an Exclusive List of over 300 Recommended Books!

Should Christians vote for pro-abortion candidates?  Read and take the Pro-Life Pledge by clicking on the Pro-Life pledge logo below:

Please let us know at [email protected] if these referrals were any help.  Thanks!